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"Why Are You Teaching What We Already Know?"!

Marlow Shami
  

NaturalSense
Summer ISSUE
Volume 3 Issue 12
 

Greetings--

NEWSFLASH! Welcome to my new website www.naturalsense.org. You'll find a calendar of events and workshops, archived NaturalSense newsletters from the past two years, resources to support healing with nature, and more! We worked hard on it and feel good about the outcome. The site will change over time, just like Nature, so keep checking in! Thank you Sherri Owen, http://www.nononsensedesign.com/, a most fabulous web designer and pitch hitter for NaturalSense!

Now, onto the topic of the newsletter. Summer is half way through. The weekend festival's sounds and smells travel on the wind the half mile into my office window. I am thinking about how that air connects me to the festival and to you. How easy it is to forget how tightly woven our lives are. We each witness and are touched by the violence, fear, frustration, beauty, generosity and love in the world. What to do with what we see, hear and feel? What do we do when we turn our heads and hear, smell and feel the events, knowing in our gut that we are all a part of this incredibly beautiful world that is now going through a very dark time.

Come with me for a few minutes and read my essay about our interrelated nature and how it touches our lives personally and globally. I offer you a simple nature based activity to assist in you in seeking counsel, solace, restoration, and with a little time, inspiration and healing.

With Nature in heart and mind--

Marlow

NaturalSense
®


CONTENTS:

* Mission statement
* Essay: Why Are You Teaching What We Already Know?
* Activity: Cultivating Your Sensory Lifeline
* Marlow's NaturalSense Calendar
* Resources & Community Events

Mission Statement
:  NaturalSense e-newsletter offers you an opportunity to investigate how and why our relationship with nature can be a healing one. The nature of healing is rooted in our relationship with all of life. When we wake up to our authentic self as a part of nature, our thoughts, actions, and life reflect the innate compassion and creative change of the natural world. This newsletter provides an essay, activity, calendar, and resource list to inspire the deepening of your natural healing connections with Nature.

Marlow Shami M.S. is a teacher, and writer. She has a private healing practice in Litchfield, Connecticut. She conducts nature based healing workshops, healing with nature meditation circles, and publishes a free quarterly e-newsletter, NaturalSense®. Her specialty is the healing connection between humans and the natural world.

I believe our largest problems have grown from the earth's remotest corners as well as our own backyards, and that salvation may lie in those places too. ~~ Barbara Kingsolver from her book Small Wonder

Essay  ~
 "
Why Are You Teaching What We Already Know?"!
by Marlow Shami

I am often asked to explain just what it is I "do." After giving my sixty-second elevator speech: " I help people experience the healing they need through their relationship with outdoor nature," the first question asked is "What does nature have to do with healing?" When we talk a bit more, they often ask; "Don't you think it's common sense that we like nature and go out to enjoy it whenever we can?" and "Why are you teaching people what we already know?"

I nod in agreement but the question remaining is why then do so few of us go out doors on a daily basis and experience the restorative effects of nature. Why do so many people suffer from stress, depression, heart disease and cancer? If it is indeed a human need to get outdoors to rest and recreate why don't we? If we do get out, why are the effects so short lived? And, by the way, what does heart disease, cancer, and depression have to do with Nature?

I'll use two brief stories to begin to address these questions. A wildlife rehabilitator friend excused herself from a dinner gathering explaining that she needed to feed an orphaned baby squirrel in her care. One of the guests commented on how odd he thought it was that she would do such a thing. Just the week before a visitor commented on the tree frogs that sing outside my home... "Why they used to sing in my yard but haven't for years." Earlier that day I had visited her home and noticed her very green yard was weed-less. She remarked "My husband would be horrified if he found one weed here."

Tending an orphaned baby animal would make as much sense as choosing to not use poisonous chemicals on lawns and gardens, a bane to tree frogs, birds, millions of micro organisms in the soil, and humans. Likewise, choosing to seek answers and take actions that address the cause of uniquely human problems like environmental pollution, global warming, homelessness, suburban sprawl and war is to become conscious of being a part of the system we all share. When we make the everyday efforts to wake up to the deep bloodlines we share with all of life we reclaim our soul, heritage and natural wisdom.

Lets look at the definition of a system...A system is a regularly interacting or interdependent group of bodies under the influence of related forces (Merriam Webster.) What's missing in the above stories is the regularly interacting ability many have let fall by the wayside. It is easy to forget that we are a part of the system of nature while living this fast paced consumer based indoor society. Those of you reading this newsletter understand this point. The challenge is how to put this understanding into every day thought and action.

Scientists are finding solid evidence suggesting we humans are wired to be in deep contact with the natural world on a regular basis. Hospital patients with tree-filled window views need less pain medication and are released earlier than those with a view of the parking lot. Children's cognitive abilities are enhanced after spending time in green activities as opposed to their choice of non-green favorite activities like baseball or TV watching. Adults too experience positive effects on how they feel and think after spending time in nature.

If we are a part of Nature, and Nature is a healer, why is cancer, heart disease and depression so widespread? The following list of possible causes came from David Orr's book Earth in Mind (1994). Note, this is really a list of symptoms. These problems occur as a result of living and thinking as if we were not a part of nature.

~~Human breast milk often contains more toxins than are permissible in milk sold by dairies.

~~At death, human bodies (as well as the bodies of whales and dolphins washed up on the banks of the St. Lawrence River and the Atlantic shore) often contain enough toxins and heavy mental to be classified as hazardous waste.

~~Roughly 80% of European forests have been damaged by acid rain.

~~There is a marked decline in both fungi and amphibians world wide and no one (as of 1994) knows why.

~~The U.S. releases some 11.4 billion tons of hazardous wastes to the environment every year.

You get the gist. Modern culture is spinning out of control and is out of touch with its very source of self and of life; our environment.

Listen, I know this picture looks overwhelming, and yes, even depressing. But this is when building our relationship with nature will most definitely help. Nature is the master teacher of creating homeostasis, and we intuitively know this. How do we rake away all the cultural debris that blocks us from nature's wisdom and restorative affects? This process takes time, devotion, community, and nature.

So I'll stop harping about our modern problems and simply leave you with a suggestion. Try the activity with Nature following this essay. Do it at least once a day for a minimum of fifteen minutes. Taking action is required in order to counter the numbing effects of this consumption addicted culture and its mind altering media blitz. Just as a plant needs water, nutrition, sun and protection, we too must nurture our native home within nature.

The idea here is for you to create a simple structure to cultivate your authentic self. In making the time, using your intention, and opening your heart and mind to this activity you are saying yes to life, and contributing to the positive change our world needs now.

 

POST ESSAY ACTIVITY: CULTIVATING YOUR SENSORY LIFELINE

Try the following activity on a daily basis and listen to nature's healing guidance. This activity is based on the Natural Systems Thinking Process. Learn more about tit at www.organicpsychology.com.


~~Preparation: You will need a pencil and small pad of paper for this activity and a safe and attractive outdoor natural area.

STEP 1: Go outside and follow a positive attraction in nature. Choose only natural attractions such as a tree, pool of light, bush, rock, bird song, etc. Once you have found a place you feel welcomed and safe in, proceed to step 2.

STEP 2: What are three qualities you find especially attractive in what you have been attracted to? (example: I love the sound of the wind, how powerful it is and how soothing it can be on this humid day).

STEP 3: Now write down the three qualities and a sentence or two about why you find each of them attractive. (The sound of the wind reminds me of Cape Cod; a place that brings me great joy and relaxation. Feeling the power of the wind gives me perspective, etc.)

STEP 4: Put your paper and pencil down and quiet your mind. Simply pay attention to your breathing for a minute.

Ask this natural area or entity how these qualities can help you in your life right now. Don't judge or edit what comes up, just notice. You may hear a song, see an image or
notice an insect involved in an activity, just notice what you see, sense and feel.

Once you feel the activity has come to completion write about your experience. Write about how you experienced informs and guides you.

STEP 5: Make sure you thank the area for joining you in this activity before you leave. Gratitude feels good and acknowledging your relationship with nature builds your sense of connection to the natural world. Remember the sense of gratitude amplifies the healing effect of your connection with nature. This activity helps to cultivate your very best qualities and all of life benefits from your caring in this way.

~~~~I enjoy reading about your experiences. If you would like to share your activity experience with me or the whole activity group simply email your comments and let me know your intentions on sharing. Email comments to Mshami@aol.com.


RESOURCES AND COMMUNITY EVENTS

August 16 and 17, 8th Annual NorthWest Herbal Faire, The Faire is in Van
Zandt, WA at the River Farm http://www.nwherbalfaire.com on August 16 and 17. Ecopsychology therapists and educators Allison Weeks and Dave Paulsen from
Attraction Retreat will be presenting two different, one hour long Reconnecting with Nature workshops each day entitled Organic Psychology: Shamanism for the 21st Century. Last year over 1,200 people enjoyed the offerings from about 50 workshops and 60 vendors. This event is designed for the whole family!

September 4-7 The Water Of Life Conference Peril & Promise in the 21st Century, Omega Conference Center, 150 Lake Drive, Rhinebeck, NY. www.eomega.org or call 800-944-1001.The World Water Council projects that by 2025, much of the world's population (including that of the United States) will suffer severe water scarcity. The vice president of the World Bank has stated, "The wars of this century will be about water." The United Nations has proclaimed 2003 as the international Year of Freashwater, encouraging governments businesses, and activists to address the impending global water crisis. This conference will focus on finding solutions to the vital challenges of sustainable water management, protection and use. All are welcomed to participate.

September 8 7:00pm You Have The Power, First Methodist Church 941 Old Rock Hill Rd., Wallingford, CT. Explore the renewable energy possibilities in Connecticut.Info: (860 493-0696 / www.irejn.org/powerpanels.html

September 8 7:30pm Earth Prayers, First Baptist Church of West Hartford, 90 North Main St., WH, CT. Inspiration, teaching, prayer and music are parts of Earth Prayers. We seek guidance and strength to commit to caring ecological life-style. Info: (860) 493-0696/ www.centerforserenity.org.

October 4 9:00am -6:00pm 2nd Annual Women's Health Fair, FREE! Litchfield Community Center, Rt. 202 in Litchfield, CT, Free workshops, lectures, demonstrations, information, vendors! Join us for a day of sharing community, health and wellness. Donations appreciated, proceeds to will go to the Litchfield Community Center. For more information, a listing of the events or directions, call 860.738.1608.

September 30 4:00pm-9:00pm A Sacred Trust: A Forum on Religion and the Environment, St. Patrick's and Saint Anthony's Church 285 Church St, West Hartford, CT. Info: (860) 493-0696


YES a journal of positive futures: An award-winning quarterly magazine invites the reader to be part of a global community of change makers. Each issue focuses on a theme, showing the possibilities and practical steps that can lead us all to a more positive future. To learn more / subscribe http://www.yesmagazine.org/

Small Wonder essays a book by Barbara Kingsolver. Read this book. Taken from the back cover "From one of history's darker moments, Barbara Kingsolver brings us an extended love song to the world we still have...her essays are grounded in the belief that our largest problems have grown from earth's remotest corners as well as our own backyards, and that answers may lie in those places too..."


WEBSITES OF INTEREST:


~~www.hsperson.com Learn about Dr. Elain Aron's ground breaking research on Highly Sensitive People. Details on upcoming HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) gatherings on both the west and east coast are listed here.

~~ www.Organicpsychology.com -- Learn more about how you can enhance your relationship with Nature when you visit this cutting edge website created by a leading researcher in the field of sensory ecology. Dr. Cohen created the Natural Systems Thinking Process, a powerful and effective nature connecting tool. I use NSTP in much of my work.

~~www.naturalsense.org You'll find a calendar of events and workshops, archived NaturalSense newsletters from the past two years, resources to support you healing with nature, and more.

~~www.ecopsychology.org Learn more about how nature heals by visiting the International Community for Ecopsychology website. List of events, resources, essays, and links for more depth.

~~www.yesmagazine.org Website amplifies the reach of the stories published in YES! to hundreds of thousands of people throughout the world, many of whom may not have access to the hard copy publication. This organization also uses the Web to respond quickly to events such as the attacks of September 11, 2001. We post discussion guides to each issue of YES! and links that help people find relevant events and organizations they can work with to make change happen.




READERS WRITE COLUMN
From time to time NaturalSense
®  publishes a Reader's Write column. Please don't be shy, email any questions or comments and I'll do my best to respond to them in a future column.
MShami@aol.com
Marlow Shami~NaturalSense
®
PO Box 33
Goshen, CT 07656

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